Giving Thanks
With Thanksgiving just passing, we want to share something with you that you might find to be a
good fit in your life. As we think about everything we have to be thankful for, we want you to
know that the biggest thing you can do for your health and your life in general is to be
thankful...and not just once a year.
In fact, gratitude may be one of the most
underestimated and overlooked things that we all have access to yet rarely employ. Cultivating
gratitude doesn’t cost any money and it certainly doesn’t take much time, but the benefits are
enormous.
Giving Thanks
Research reveals that gratitude can have these
seven benefits:
1. Gratitude opens the door to more relationships. Not only
does saying “thank you” constitute good manners, but showing appreciation can help you win new
friends, according to a 2104 study published in Emotion. The study found that thanking a new
acquaintance makes them more likely to seek an ongoing relationship. So whether you thank a
stranger for holding the door or you send a quick thank-you note to that co-worker who helped
you with a project, acknowledging other people’s contributions can lead to new
opportunities.
2. Gratitude improves physical health. Grateful people
experience fewer aches and pains and they report feeling healthier than other people, according
to a 2012 study published in Personality and Individual Differences. Not surprisingly, grateful
people are also more likely to take care of their health. They exercise more often and are more
likely to attend regular check-ups with their doctors, which is likely to contribute to further
longevity.
3. Gratitude improves psychological health. Gratitude reduces a
multitude of toxic emotions, ranging from envy and resentment to frustration and regret. Robert
A. Emmons, Ph.D., a leading gratitude researcher, has conducted multiple studies on the link
between gratitude and
well-being. His research confirms that gratitude effectively
increases happiness and reduces depression.
4. Gratitude enhances empathy and
reduces aggression. Grateful people are more likely to behave in a prosocial manner,
even when others behave less kind, according to a 2012 study by the University of Kentucky.
Study participants who ranked higher on gratitude scales were less likely to retaliate against
others, even when given negative feedback. They experienced more sensitivity and empathy toward
other people and a decreased desire to seek revenge.
5. Grateful people sleep
better. Writing in a gratitude journal improves sleep, according to a 2011 study
published in Applied Psychology: Health and Well-Being. Spend just 15 minutes jotting down a few
grateful sentiments before bed, and you may sleep better and longer.
6. Gratitude
improves self-esteem. A 2014 study published in the Journal of Applied Sport Psychology
found that gratitude increased athlete’s self-esteem, which is an essential component to optimal
performance. Other studies have shown that gratitude reduces social comparisons. Rather than
becoming resentful toward people who have more money or better jobs – which is a major factor in
reduced self-esteem- grateful people are able to
appreciate other people’s
accomplishments.
7. Gratitude increases mental strength. For years, research
has shown gratitude not only reduces stress, but it may also play a major role in overcoming
trauma. A 2006 study published in Behavior Research and Therapy found that Vietnam War Veterans
with higher levels of gratitude experienced lower rates of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. A
2003 study published in
the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that
gratitude was a major contributor to resilience following the terrorist attacks on September 11.
Recognizing all you have to be thankful for – even during the worst times of your life – fosters
resilience. We all have the ability and opportunity to cultivate gratitude. Simply take a few
moments to focus on all that you have – rather than complain about all the things you think you
deserve. Developing an “attitude of gratitude” is one of the simplest ways to improve your
satisfaction with life.
Source: Amy Morin: 7 Scientifically Proven Benefits Of
Gratitude That Will
Motivate You To Give Thanks Year-Round (Forbes)